Our battle of Kurekshetra

Stop becoming Dhritraashtra and Gandhari

By Nirmala Shahani;DUBAI

Each  each of us have our battle of Kurekshetra . Every family has a Dhritraashtra & Gandhari , Dhuryodhan (son)and Kans (brother of the sister Today’s KALYUG KANS)

When the child is born the entire family revolves around the child and if it’s the first or the last it doesn’t matter. Son or daughter doesn’t matter. And if the child is born in the upper middle class or  a rich family it’s nothing but the series of ambitions are planned with that child which are the desires of the family.

The son is parents favourite child if he is the first male child.

All the legitimate or illegitimate wishes and demands are fulfilled of the child. Given the super best without asking . Education in expensive schools and colleges. It doesn’t stop here.

The parents are so blind folded that in all this they forget to give the essence of religion or culture to the child nor teach the value of the color of green ( money) The children see a super luxurious life till the age of 20/22.

Now comes the turning point in 60% of the families where the dream of the father is my son will join the business and takeover the responsibility or the family from the father at-least 60% of the burden which the father is shouldering.

But the sons have been grown up so Luxuriously that for them to work is like climbing Mount Everest and they will just on some pretext avoid joining business. Here again both the parents are very blind folded and then the emotional blackmail form the son starts and he is back to the square of leading the luxurious life style and the father is the good old provider.

The parents have one more theory THE KARMIC , which plays another important role in the further damage of the sons future. It melts down to May be in the last birth I owed him so this birth I have to pay back and get rid of the Karma. This doesn’t end here Oh May be the stars are not supporting him to join me. There goes one more in the list to ruin the future of the son. The last comes is like creating a Financial TRUST so that the son doesn’t suffer in the future. All this at the stake of the rest in the family who have to sacrifice.

Now coming to the daughter- the dotted one and most adorable princess of the family. Total liberty starting from head to toe a brand shop flaunting the fathers wealth moving around in chauffeur driven luxury cars – reason she is guest of the family for few years and will be soon married off. If very lucky not a liability but if happened to be one then the blind folded parents another family to handle on all fronts as they don’t want the daughter to suffer in her in-laws.

All this again melts down to the whole and sole bread winner of the family who has to extend his hardships for another 10 years why ?, now he has to secure the daughter’s future.

We all are interfering in the Karmic cycle of the children and stopping the soul plan and purpose of it on mother earth.When the Karmic cycle is not over we are instrumental in the soul to reincarnate again. It’s not necessary the soul would again take human birth.

When will we as parents learn in life ? Don’t we deserve to lead a peaceful life without stress?

The brother of the sister (Kans) we have a lot of these today as once they get married and if the parents are not alive their greed for the color of green or property they take away the rights of the younger siblings. Here again the fear the brother has his children’s future as compared to Kans of the Dwapar Yug where his life was as stake as his sister Devaki’s son would kill him. The brothers of the same mother I would call them “KANS OF KALYUG”.

Now coming back to Kurukshetra that was for the world betterment but we all have one in our family. The minute we ask rights it’s Mahabharat or else it’s Ramayana.

We all have to decide if we want the live in the battle field Kurukshetra or the Ayodhya ?

When we all stop becoming Dhritraashtra and Gandhari and not interfere in the Karmic cycle of Duryodhan/Kans.

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